Attendance at Christian churches among millennials is going down. There are many factors that play into that downward trend.

However a common critique is that for the last 30 years both church leaders and potential church attenders have been asking the wrong questions in their efforts to reach out and in their search for someplace to belong. Namely, the focus for both has been on matters of style and catering to consumer sensibilities. And after decades of making style and consumer questions the most important thing people are finding themselves dissatisfied.

Here are three better questions to ask when looking for a church.